Childhood Healing Intensive

The impact of childhood wounds

Extensive research has shown that people who’ve experienced a number of sizable difficulties in childhood are much more likely to have major challenges in their adulthood, such as substance misuse, work difficulties, ongoing relationship difficulties, and so on.  

People with unresolved difficulties from childhood often don’t realize that their current relationship and mission challenges stem partly from childhood. As a result, they’re likely to take steps in wrong directions to try resolve their problems. In part, many people find it too scary to go into those old wounds, so they avoid dealing with them. They shut down in a variety of ways – dissociation, alcohol, drugs, focusing on anything else, etc.  

For others, they really feel the suffering but they don’t know where to turn for help. Many desperately hope that the love of their life will come and save them from their plight. And, of course, that can’t work.

Experiencing only one type of adverse childhood experience can be very traumatic. However, having experienced a number of them compounds the difficulties.

They’re also much more likely to experience sizable difficulties in their love relationships.

Your A.C.E. (Adverse Childhood Experiences) Score:

To help you determine more clearly how your early life challenges may have affected you, count how many of the following you experienced before the age of eighteen:

• Abuse
• Emotional: recurrent threats, humiliation
• Physical: beating, not spanking
• Contact sexual abuse
• Household dysfunction
• Mother was treated violently
• Household member was alcoholic or drug user
• Household member was imprisoned
• Household member was chronically depressed, suicidal, mentally ill or in psychiatric hospital
• Not raised by both biological parents
• Physical neglect
• Emotional neglect – minimal emotional care by our parents, such as lack of affection, or not being told we’re loved or valued
  

The Focus of this Intensive

In our view, to help us transform these issues deeply, it’s essential to focus on multidimensional aspects of childhood wounds – such as understanding and clearing for our connection with the suffering in our family of origin, in our ancestry, more broadly in the collective, from past lives, and so on. For example, with a person who is depressed or suicidal, it’s essential to help them become aware of the broader layers and clear for broader layers, such as ancestral trauma, suicide in a past life, etc.

In this intensive, we’ll do transformational work of the deep basement issues relating to A.C.E. – profound self-hatred, self-sabotage, addictions, major difficulties relating to love relationships, and so on. As many of you know from experience, most other helping methods are not very helpful with these types of difficulties for advanced souls, who are more in touch with the multidimensional aspects than are other people. 

For those of you who’ve taken our Clearing Your Pain Body series or our Multidimensional Childhood Healing series, we’ll go more deeply into some of the more difficult themes that are really hard to transform when working solo or with most types of help.

Please be aware that the goal will be to open up - and help to transform - your deep basements. It will be your job to do the follow-up transformational work after this intensive if needed.